Max Update! Feb 29, 2004
Feb29th
Time for another update on Max's progress!
First of all Max is doing really well, we see him getting a little
stronger, a little brighter and more like himself every day. The cards
and gifts he's been receiving really chear him up. It's great to see
that little smile after he reads a get well card - They really work!
Last Wednesday's surgery to put in the porta-cath and spinal tap went
just fine. It was definitely a hectic day and Max was kind of scared to
go into surgery again. We were too. It was especially hard because the
surgery was about 2 hours late but nobody could tell us what was
happening or where the doctors were. We just had to wait in the
induction room listening to the constant beep of the monitor measuring
Max's respiration for an hour. Max hung in tough while we were tearing
our hair out trying to figure out what was going on. Anyway it finally
happened and everything worked out great. Max was awake and alert a few
hours later. The "port" isn't very visible at all - completely under the
skin.
Also on Wednesday Max left Childeren's hospital for the first time in a
couple of weeks to go to meet some of the doctors in radiation therapy
at the UW. We were all a little nervous about it, but it turned out to
be a really positive experience . Doctor Douglas is really great. He
explained all the ins and outs of radiation therapy, what to expect, how
it works and side effects.. more than any 8 year old should have to
know, but we need to and we felt a lot better after talking with the
Doctor. He's really genuine and seems super invested in making kids
better. We go back on Tuesday to have some molds, masks etc made and
then plan to start Radiation therapy the following week. It will go on
for 6 weeks, every day.
Max's back got pretty sore from the spinal tap the next couple of days
but that seems to be better now. The doctors say this is normal
especially for someone that has strong back muscles as Max does. We
still don't know the results of the test they did, but expect to in the
next couple of days - Keep Praying!
Also on Wednesday Max had another CT scan. It's getting routine. This
was to see how his system is managing the drainage of spinal fluid. The
neuro surgeons told us that the results looked good and that Max's
ventricles appeared "slightly smaller". They also cautioned us though
that the word isn't really out on this yet. Max may still need a shunt
and we'll need to keep an eye on it - yep, more CTs.
During Max's recovery from the surgery, a really special visitor came to
his room! It was Shaun Alexender, Max's favorite Seahawk! It was kind of
too bad Max couldn't meet him, he was still being revived in a recovery
room, but Shaun did sign Max's Seahawks jersey (number 37 of course!),
and we got a picture of him holding Max's teddy bear, named Shaun
Alexander - (really)! Max thought this was very cool and we're hoping
that sometime Shaun might be able to come back and meet Max in person.
They'd get along really well.
The last couple of days have been great. It really seems like Max has
started to become more like himself. Everyone has noticed it. No sharp
corners on this road but still a noticeable and welcome improvement. He's
laughing more, using more words on his own becoming more animated - Just
looking and acting more and more like Max. Today (Sunday) we went
outside and found a toy bat and a ball. At first Max didn't want to
play. When I started pitching to him he couldn't help himself. He was
sitting their in a wheelchair, using just one eye (he still wears a
"pirate patch" over one eye to keep from seeing double), and he was
doing it - yep, Max can still hit a ball! He was so proud of himself -
you could see it in his face and the way he sat. To me it was astounding
- I have no idea how he could do it, - Don't you really need 2 eyes to
figure out when to swing? So we just hung out, pitching and hitting
just like we always do, just like we've done since Max was 2.
The support Max and our entire family is getting is so unbelievable -
You are all angels. Today Max got a visit from a friend who had setup a
lemonade stand to earn money to buy toys for him. She's in 4th grade and
goes to Max's school. Together with a few friends they earned $32
selling lemonade (remember - it's February). They bought Max a cuddly
spotted leopard, pokey, (he's holding him right now), and a battery
powered air hockey game. Absolutely perfect. Max's class is also making
a weekly "news report" video for him to watch at the end of the week to
help him keep up with what's going on at school.
You are all so wonderful - the love we feel in this difficult time is
inspiring. This is hard for everyone and we have all been changed by
this. - Maybe most profoundly we recognize how deeply we care about each
other and how much we need one another. We live in a beautiful world.
God Bless, your prayers are felt

